Pam Dawber

Pamela Dawber (born October 18, 1951) is an American actress best known for her lead television sitcom roles as Mindy McConnell in Mork & Mindy (1978–1982) and Samantha Russell in My Sister Sam (1986–1988).

Pam Dawber
Pam Dawber in 2012
Pamela Dawber

(1951-10-18) October 18, 1951 (age 69)
OccupationActress, producer, singer
Years active1978–2016, 2021
(m. 1987)
RelativesTom Harmon
Elyse Knox
Kelly Harmon
Kristin Nelson

Early life

Dawber was born in Detroit, the older of two daughters of Thelma M. (née Fisher) and Eugene E. Dawber, a commercial artist.[1][2] She went to Reid Elementary School in Goodrich and attended North Farmington High School and Oakland Community College (OCC), with the intention of transferring to a four-year college.[3] She deferred her studies at OCC to do some modeling work and eventually dropped out after deciding to go into modeling full-time.


Dawber moved to New York City and was initially a fashion model with Wilhelmina Models before switching to acting. She appeared in several television commercials during the 1970s (Fotomat, Noxzema, Neet, Underalls, etc.).[4][5]

Dawber screen-tested for the title role in Tabitha, a 1977–1978 situation comedy spun off from Bewitched, but the role instead went to Lisa Hartman. However, ABC-TV was impressed enough with her to enroll her in its "talent development" program, which paid its participants until they could find appropriate roles.[citation needed] Garry K. Marshall recruited her from this program.

Breakthrough: Mork & Mindy

Dawber's professional breakthrough came when Marshall chose her, despite her having relatively little acting experience and not having auditioned for the part, as one of the two title characters of the ABC sitcom Mork & Mindy, which ran from 1978 to 1982. She portrayed Mindy McConnell, the comedic foil and eventual love interest for the extraterrestrial Mork from the planet Ork, played by a then-unknown Robin Williams. The show was extremely popular in its debut season, when it averaged at number three in the Nielsen ratings for the year.[6] The only major difficulty for her on set was that she often found it impossible to maintain the proper composure in character in the face of her co-star's comedic talent. Also, pressure came from the TV network to sexualize her character as the series progressed, which Dawber successfully resisted, with Williams' support.


Dawber sang in a 1980s Los Angeles Civic Light Opera production of Gilbert & Sullivan's The Pirates of Penzance, based on the Joseph Papp/New York Shakespeare Festival production. Her role, as Mabel, had been played by Linda Ronstadt in the New York run of the show.

My Sister Sam

From 1986 to 1988, Dawber again had the title role in a television series, playing Samantha Russell in the CBS sitcom My Sister Sam, co-starring Rebecca Schaeffer. The series was a success in its first season, but it suffered a massive ratings drop in its second after moving to Saturday night. My Sister Sam was cancelled in April 1988, with half of the second season's episodes never shown on CBS, but eventually broadcast (along with all previous episodes) on USA Network.

In July 1989, over a year after the show's cancellation, Schaeffer was shot and killed in front of her apartment in Los Angeles by Robert John Bardo, a man who had stalked her for three years. Dawber was reportedly "devastated" by her former co-star's death.[7] Dawber and her other surviving My Sister Sam co-stars, Joel Brooks, David Naughton and Jenny O'Hara, all participated in a filmed public service announcement about gun violence prevention, and Dawber herself became a gun control advocate. With the birth of her second child, she largely retired from the entertainment industry for family reasons, acting sporadically during the 1990s.

Film work

Although mostly known for her television work, Dawber has starred in several films, including the comedy movie Stay Tuned (1992) with John Ritter and the period movie I'll Remember April (1999), alongside her husband Mark Harmon.

Return to television

In 1997, Dawber starred in the short-lived sitcom Life... and Stuff on CBS. [8]

In 2014, she reunited with Robin Williams on his comedy series The Crazy Ones as a love interest of Williams's character.[9][10] But the reunion failed to boost the show's ratings, and it was cancelled shortly afterwards. Williams, already suffering from Lewy body disease by this time, died by suicide later that year.

Dawber is a national spokeswoman for Big Brothers Big Sisters of America. Garry K. Marshall, the film-and-television comedy writer-producer-director who enabled Dawber's professional breakthrough, died in 2016. That year, Dawber made a guest appearance on The Odd Couple in a tribute episode to Marshall, along with other Marshall alumni Ron Howard, Garry's sister Penny Marshall, Cindy Williams, Anson Williams, Don Most and Marion Ross.

For the first time in her career, she appeared with Harmon on NCIS in 2021 for four episodes as '"seasoned investigative journalist" Marcie Warren', whom Gibbs sits near at a diner.[11]

Personal life

Dawber married actor Mark Harmon on March 21, 1987, in a private ceremony.[2][12] They have two sons: Sean Thomas Harmon (born April 25, 1988),[13] also an actor, and Ty Christian Harmon (born June 25, 1992).[14] The couple maintains a private family life and rarely appear in public with their children, or speak about one another in interviews.


Year Title Role Notes
1978Sister TerriTerri1 episode
1978–1982Mork & MindyMindy McConnell94 episodes
1982Mork & Mindy/Laverne & Shirley/Fonz HourMindy McConnell (voice)14 episodes
1985The Twilight ZoneKaren Billings1 episode: "But Can She Type?" segment
1986–1988My Sister SamSamantha "Sam" Russell44 episodes
1987Faerie Tale TheatrePearl1 episode: "The Little Mermaid"
1988RosieShelby WoodsEpisode: "Shelby By The Moon"
1994Dream OnCheryl Castorini1 episode: "From Here to Paternity"
1996Adventures from the Book of VirtuesLiese (voice)1 episode: "Self-Discipline"
1997Life... and StuffRonnie Boswell5 episodes
1997–1998101 Dalmatians: The SeriesPerdy (voice)20 episodes
2014The Crazy OnesLily1 episode: "Love Sucks"
2016The Odd CoupleArnette1 episode: "Taffy Days"
2021NCISMarcie Warren4 episodes
Year Title Role Notes
1978A WeddingTracy FarrellFeature film
1980The Girl, the Gold Watch & EverythingBonny Lee BeaumontTelevision film
1981Swan LakePrincess Odette (voice)Feature film
1982Remembrance of LoveMarcy RabinTelevision film
1983Through Naked EyesAnne WalshTelevision film
1984Last of the Great SurvivorsLaura MatthewsTelevision film
1985This Wife for HireMarsha HarperTelevision film
1985Wild HorsesDaryl ReeseTelevision film
1986American GeishaGillian BurkeTelevision film
1988Quiet Victory: The Charlie Wedemeyer StoryLucy WedemeyerTelevision film
1989Do You Know the Muffin Man?Kendra DollisonTelevision film
1990The Face of FearConnie WeaverTelevision film
1992Stay TunedHelen KnableFeature film
1993The Man with Three WivesRobynTelevision film
1994Web of DeceptionEllen BeneschTelevision film
1994A Child's Cry for HelpMonica ShawTelevision film
1995Trail of TearsCheryl HarrisTelevision film
1996A Stranger to LoveAndieTelevision film
1999Don't Look Behind YouLiz CorriganTelevision film
1999I'll Remember AprilBarbara CooperFeature film
2006Christa McAuliffe: Reach for the StarsHerselfDocumentary film[15]


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  3. "Detroit Native Pam Dawber To Reunite With 'Mork & Mindy' Alumn Robin Williams On CBS' 'The Crazy Ones'". Cbslocal. February 13, 2014. Retrieved August 16, 2014.
  4. Marshall, Garry (1997). Wake Me When It's Funny: How to Break Into Show Business and Stay. Newmarket Press. p. 16. ISBN 9781557042880.
  5. Brant, Marley (2006). Happier days: Paramount Television's classic sitcoms, 1974-1984. Billboard Books. pp. 99–100. ISBN 9780823089338.
  6. "Screen Source: Top TV Shows, 1970's". March 28, 1997. Archived from the original on October 20, 2015. Retrieved May 16, 2013.
  7. John E. Douglas, Mark Olshaker (November 1, 1998). Obsession. Simon & Schuster. ISBN 9781439107409. Retrieved September 26, 2014. [Rebecca Schaeffer's] Sam costar Pam Dawber adored her and was devastated by her death.
  8. "Review: 'Life and Stuff'". Variety. June 6, 1997.
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  11. Naledi Ushe. "Mark Harmon's Wife Pam Dawber to Join Him on NCIS for 4 Episodes". Retrieved March 17, 2021.
  12. Earl Blackwell's Celebrity Register, 1990. Gale Research Incorporated. 1990. pp. 113, 190. ISBN 9780810368750.
  13. "Baby Boom". Los Angeles Times. April 27, 1988.
  14. "In Step With...Mark Harmon". Parade. September 2008. Archived from the original on September 8, 2012. Retrieved November 26, 2013.
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