Clerical sexual abuse

In a statement on 21 May 2009, Neary described the Ryan Report as "sad and disturbing reading", and offered on behalf of the Catholic Church his unreserved apologies "for our failure to protect children".^[7]

He added that had lay people been more involved in the Church, the response to clerical child sex abuse allegations "would have been different".^[8] In a letter to the priests of the Archdiocese of Tuam following a meeting held between Pope Benedict XVI and Irish bishops from 15 to 16 February 2010, Neary said that "in the discussions [Pope Benedict XVI] asked for the forgiveness of the victims", adding that "the need for co-operation with civil authorities, the HSE and Gardaí, and the complete implementation of the Church’s own norms and procedures were seen as central to the safeguarding of children".^[9]

He also acknowledged that while the problem of clerical sexual abuse was not one "which is peculiar to Ireland or to the English-speaking world, or the church, nevertheless its impact is intensified in the church, damaging its credibility in a number of areas, for example, its teaching on marriage and the family, on sexual morality, and on the church’s role in education and Catholic schools".^[8]

In a homily given on Reek Sunday 2010, Neary said that "the truth of past pain is certainly coming to the surface. But this is good news. We should embrace the truth even though this can be a painful task". However, he also asked for awareness "of the dangers contained in what some have called a 'culture of blame'. We seek out the negligence of doctors, the health service, bankers, the Church or the school. Maybe this makes it easier to deal with our own shortcomings, the neglect and indifference of others and the tyranny of blind chance. Christ did not encourage us to imprison people by their human failings. Instead he taught us the way of forgiveness."^[10]

Bon Secours mother and baby home

In a homily given on 5 March 2017, Neary expressed his upset at the publication of the findings of the Mother and Baby Homes Commission of Investigation two days earlier, adding that he was also "greatly shocked [...] to learn of the extent of the numbers of children buried in the graveyard at the Mother and Baby Home in Tuam" and describing the news as a "body blow".^[12][13] On 12 March, he expressed "an urgent need for an enquiry to examine all aspects of life at the time, broadening the focus from one particular religious congregation, and instead addressing the roles and interrelationships between Church, State, local authorities and society generally", and hoped "that the Report of the Commission will enable that truth to surface in a clear and objective manner".^[14][15][16]

In a statement welcoming the publication of the final report of the Mother and Baby Homes Commission of Investigation on 13 January 2021, Neary referred to the findings as "a cause for shame", acknowledging that the Church "failed in its responsibility to love and cherish those who were thus diminished" and that when "the Church is not serving with compassion, it is failing". He went on to acknowledge and humbly ask "forgiveness for the abject failure of the Church for the pain and suffering visited on those women and their children in the Mother and Baby Homes nationally".^[17][18]