hurtful
adjective
[ ˈhəːtfʊl ]
• causing distress to someone's feelings.
• "his hurtful remarks"
Similar:
upsetting,
distressing,
wounding,
painful,
unkind,
cruel,
nasty,
mean,
malicious,
spiteful,
snide,
acerbic,
cutting,
biting,
barbed,
vicious,
offensive,
catty,
bitchy,
sarky,
snarky,
acidulous,
mordacious,