take it out of
• exhaust the strength of (someone).
• "parties and tours can take it out of you, especially if you are over 65"
Similar:
exhaust,
drain,
enervate,
tire,
fatigue,
wear out,
weary,
debilitate,
jade,
fag out,
whack,
bush,
knacker,
poop,
• take reprisals against.
out of it
• not included; rejected.
• "I hate feeling out of it"
• unaware of what is happening as a result of being uninformed.